Rant about my bfs side of the family 🙃

So it’s no secret that my bfs dad isn’t allowed to see my daughter. He has disrespected me since I’ve started dating my bf and we both agreed until he shows he even cares for our daughter that he will not see her. And in the 2 months she’s been born, he has shown he really doesn’t give a fuck.

We have told his mom OVER and OVER again that she is more than welcome to text me and ask to see our baby. His whole family knows.

They only people who have made an effort to see her is my bfs aunt and Nana.

His mom has not ONCE even tried to come over and ask to see her. Yet she’s mad at US that we don’t bring her over like every freaking week 🙃 My daughter has so much family and everyone expects me to just lug her around to them.

I need some advice on what to tell his mom. She knows exactly how her husband is and still expects me to bring my daughter around him.

Should I really be the only one putting in any effort to see what days people have off and if and when they want to see my baby?