Insensitive Husband

99.9% of the time my husband is the sweetest most kind man in the world (to me) but every once in a while he does something assholeish! Why?! Then he says that he won’t apologize and he doesn’t see the error of his ways. Do you ladies suffer insensitivity from your men occasionally?

Lately he has picked a fight over a controversial subject with a really good friend of mine via social media. He was rude and hateful to her and she (and a few other social media observers) asked me why he was being so hateful, I’m not entirely sure why so I didn’t have a good answer.

Of course I was upset that he was being so mean to my good friend so I told him that I didn’t like what he did. When I told him that others on social media watching the conversation believe that it was hateful on his end he deleted those people from his page (these people were childhood friends of HIS) He doesn’t see it as being wrong and told me to get over it. I have also noticed him trolling other people’s statuses and commenting rude things, almost looking for a fight. Maybe things are going so well at home that he feels off without conflict. He does something super asshole like once every few months.

What the hell?!

The problem may be social media but he would never delete it. I may end up deleting mine, but hate having to give up my connection to some of my friends and long distance family because he is being hateful and it bothers me.

Ladies...advice? Experience?