Update on my not a word post

Thank you ladies for the advice. after much thought I have filed the divorce papers today. I tried to call him, went straight to voicemail, so I sent him a long text message. I explained to him how I felt and what I was going to do. his response was, "seriously, if there's someone else it's whatever" 😡 I explained to him that there wasn't anyone else, and that a marriage takes two. next response "it's whatever you want to do, I'm drinking right now and I'm not going to talk about it" 😠 at that point I lost all control and got super pissed. I asked him why he could go party with the boys, but not call or text his wife? no response, and it's been 4 days since then. last message I sent him was that I told him he got his priorities all wrong. Found out he went back to California to be with his side chick, guess he couldn't handle a grown ass woman! 😂now he's shacked up with some 19 year old girl. all I have to say is good luck to her! Again thank you ladies!!!