Am i over reacting?

Me and my husband got into a really big argument last night we have two daughters the oldest is 8 years old my youngest is a month so every time he has a problem with the girls he tells me to take care of it for example my daughter hates washing her teeth so his like oh your daughter didn't wash her teeth properly im like ok then take her with you when you wash yours and make sure she does it right i have to always do everything he got mad im like you come home take shower and lay on the couch i have to do everything cook clean and take care of the girls his like you go to work for me then ill stay up with the baby i was like wtf fine so when i go back to work in november then what your going to stay up with her we are both going to be working his answer was when you bring home a check as. BIg as mine then talk wtf we both work 8 hours and in tired as well and he still wants me to do everything honesty hate him right now😤😤