I am currently in a long distance relationship with my bf of 16 months. I spent all summer with him and it was literally the best. Now that I’m back home he hit me with the random question of “if there was someone else would you tell me?” I asked if he thought there was someone else in my life and he said of course not. I then asked him if there was someone else in his life and he said he wasn’t sure. At first I was really mad and upset at him for letting this happen. He told me who the girl was and that girl OBVIOUSLY likes him. I asked what happened that made him develop feelings and he said he didn’t know. He told me he was frustrated and mad at himself because he didn’t know why these feelings were happening. I am now stuck thinking what to do. I know and understand he needs time to figure his feelings out but i hate the feeling of having to stick around until he decides who he wants. He said he loves me and I truly believe him but I seriously don’t know what to do.