Sex Sucks

I used to LOVE sex. My drive was through the roof. I got married about 3 years ago and sex with my husband is a drag.

Every session is exhausting because he takes FOREVER to get off. I’ve tried different positions, lubes, toys, fore play you name it. I’ve also spoken with him about it and he says it’s just how he’s always been.

Quickies are out of the question because the minimum time it will take is around 20minutes. (And even then it may not end well)

We have 2 young children so it isn’t always feasible. His sex drive is very high we just don’t have the time to go at it for hours.

I ALWAYS get mine and very quickly so the issue isn’t being satisfied, but as a woman I just want to feel like I’m fulfilling his needs sexually. I want the excitement of a quick session in the bathroom. Or the challenge of him having to hold back from going too soon.

I’m just becoming more and more disinterested and it makes me upset and scared for my marriage. Sex is important to both of us and I don’t want that to ruin our relationship 😢