Vent/ need advice sorta.
So I kinda need advice and to vent..
Me and my S/o have been together about two years now. We are currently 38weeks pregnant ( we TTC for four months before we got our wish) our relationship has actually gotten better since I’ve been pregnant and I didn’t think it was possible for it to get any better than it was. Our only down fall? Our sex life..... our sex life has sucked since day one honestly. The first 9 months I’d say we had sex maybe 4-5 times? When we were TTC we had sex a little more often like 2 times a month if that? Since I’ve been pregnant we’ve had sex maybe 3 times. 3 times in almost 9 months... I’m always horny and I try to show him but he acts like he doesn’t know what’s going on. If I even put my hands near his crotch area he all the sudden has something he has to get up and go do. So it’s to the point now where I have to ask him if we can have sex... I asked him about sex two weeks ago and 5 days after he finally gave me the okay on trying to have sex. Tonight I was in the mood and I asked him if he still found me attractive and he said “of course I find you attractive “ and I started to explain to him that I truly don’t feel like he’s attracted to me and it kinda hurts my feelings and he instantly got upset and started an argument with me and then rolled over and went to sleep. Also he bought a body pillow so we’d have a pillow to keep between us when we sleep. He refuses to cuddle with me or have any sort of skin to skin contact other than holding my hand in his sleep. We are 24 and 21years old we should have more of a physical relationship than this. 😩 I just want to feel like I’m attractive in his eyes. I’m 100% sure he’s not seeing or talk to any other women so I don’t understand why his sex drive is so low. I need advice on how to fix this problem or a better way to approach the problem?
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.