First miscarriage! After loss of infant

Anna

I lost my daughter at four days old 10 months ago(not due to pregnancy issues) it was labor trauma. I was 8 weeks pregnant until Sunday morning when I found out there was no heartbeat at the ER. It really sucks just wondering how long different women have waited to start trying again with a successful pregnancy? Also, how common is it having to get a dnc. And how long were you out of work (I clean houses)?