Venting/what would you do?!

My husband and I have been fighting for awhile and I just ma at my wits end and idk what to do! I'm constantly asking him to help me around the house he always says he will never does. I work full time and raise a wonderful soon to be 7 yr old. When I get off work I go straight to taking care of my son, cleaning and cooking everyday. After all is said and done I get his stuff ready for school read with him shower and off to bed then I finally have "mommy time" which is usually alone because my husband is hardly ever home. While I'm doing all this he's napping or is off to practice (he coaches a basketball team). I understand he's tired when he gets off work, but so am I. I still manage to do it all and I never take naps. Is anyone else in the same boat? I am just so frustrated. Idk how many times I tell him how I feel and he either gets upset or doesn't care or argues. We both work and pay bills but home life is awful. I'm tired of doing it all, I mean I might as well be alone bc I'm doing everything anyways. And not just that I just want to spend time with him. Idk what else to do or say!