Super annoyed. Is it my hormones orrr???🤔.

Ok so my SO and I have been living together for a year. His mom recently moved in with us and I'm totally ok with that😊 but even before she moved in she would call us CONSTANTLY their wasn't one day we didn't get a call from her. Why? Because she doesn't speak ANY English NONE what so ever. She's been living in Arizona for 27 years and still doesn't know any...she calls us so that my SO can talk to people for her or do her taxes or take her dog to the vet etc. it's starting to really piss me tf off. He's not living his life the way a man should he's doing way to much. I understand it's his mom but come on let us live our life's we have a beautiful daughter coming soon in November 😍 I want a house but his mom wants one to and wants to put his name under it. Like come on are you fucking kidding me leave your son already he needs to grow up SHE ISNT INDEPENDENT at all! She seriously waits for his days off to make him do EVERYTHING for her. I'm getting so annoyed and tired of it. We are never going to live alone or in piece without his mom on his butt!. I might be overthinking it but idk even my family sees it and gets so annoyed. So idk maybe my family is getting inside my head to much?🤔🤔🤔. Smh🤦‍♀️ I even talked to him about it not once not twice but multiple times and he keeps saying he won't do it but goes behind my back or runs and does it... like I know it's his mom but he's already 22 she's been making him do things for 21 years let him go already we are having a family soon. What do you ladies think? Also she doesn't have her papers. So that has a lot to do with why she doesn't do anything. She also has another son he doesn't have any kids. And lives alone. It's like she's jealous of me or something. But her son is deeply Inlove with me and I'm deeply Inlove with him. I changed his life upside down (in the best way ever) she was never their for him and now that I change his life she wants to come back in? 👿 so annoyed...