Jerking off before sex

I think my SO has started jerking off before we have sex. Normally he lasts around 3mins. It's not hard for me to get him off til round two. Anyways the last two mornings it's taken over 10mins and this morning he couldn't even get hard which never happens. We showered together and then were heading to the bed room but I waited almost 10mins for him to come upstairs and then he couldn't get hard he tried for around 10-15mins he was just hard in the shower and then decided to go down on me and after that he was able to get hard but not get off. I understand him wanting to last longer for me, but it makes me insecure when he can't get hard or get off. And if I confront him he will just deny it. 🙄 he's so easy to get hard too so I just know he's pinching one off. 😑

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Mo

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Hum... that's a difficult situation. My biggest hope is that he is young and too excited. There is still a minority that will still be fast even as they are aging. I think there is quite some dedication from him and he must be already feeling a bit ashamed, so maybe you should not mention anything.But, if you are fine with two rounds and him wanting you to please you for long, you should give him a green light that first round does not bother you to be just from foreplay instead of jerking off. For example, you could make him come from a blowjob, then he will give you some head for your turn, and finally get intercourse when he is up for round two.If you do the above, he will know he should not jerk off because you accept his temperament from your action.

Am

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Maybe he wants to last longer?