What's something that will stop you from dating a guy?

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For me it would have to be⬇️

1. Bad grammar.

I'm a writer so writing is everything to me. And I appreciate a guy who has proper grammar.

2. A guy who says a lot of bad words.

I was raised in a home where I didn't hear my parents saying them unless they were very upset about something.

3. Guys who sag, wear loose clothes and Jordan's.

It's so unattractive to me.

4. A guy who chews on his food loudly.

5. A guy who's dirty-bad hygiene.

I'm extremely OCD. I have hand sanitizer all over my place, car and you name it.

6. A guy who isn't kind for example, if we're in a restaurant and there's old people coming and he sees that and doesnt help open the door while he's next to it. I personally pay attention to small details like this and it means a lot.

7. A guy that can't have an intellectual conversation with me is automatically cut off.

8. A guy that is too serious.

I like a guy that has awesome sense of humor.

9. Someone that's too extravagant.

I like the simple things in life and that means simplicity in a guy.

10. A guy who uses drugs.

Big no!

So far this is a few things.

What about you?

Edit: This post is to share what things will stop you from dating a guy not to be judgmental on mine just because it's the opposite of your dislikes on a man. I will hide your negative comments x

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Me

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So u want sheldon lol?
So u want sheldon lol?

Ra

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only thing i disagree with is cursing . lol i cuss like a sailor and so does my man 😂

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🅱️ • Oct 5, 2017
😂

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Rachel R • Oct 5, 2017
lol true . to each his own 😊 im sute the first word to come out my girls mouth is probably gonna be *stupid mother fuckers* lmao . not really but im pregnant and i say that alot when driving 😂

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🅱️ • Oct 5, 2017
If you're like that then I don't blame you. It's totally ok lol no judgement here. I was just raised different so that's why I'm the opposite 🙂

su

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smoking bleh

Al

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Deal breaker for me is no love of life. Like I'm super adventurous love doing new things,and traveling. I hate it when a man is all about work and that's it.I like to just stop sometimes and watch the sunset or the birds flying. Just enjoy the little things in life! Thankfully my man loves to be adventurous as well. But the other things, the hygiene and bad language and all that I agree with as well.

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🅱️ • Oct 5, 2017
Well said I agree with you too!

Al

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I’m pretty picky and I agree with most that has been said already. I’m married to an amazing man so I don’t need to think about dating or deal breakers anymore haha. If I were to add a something that has not been mentioned, I would say that it would be difficult for me to see a future with a very religious guy as religious faith does not align at all with my own “world view”, without going further into that topic. I’m sure there are many who, on the contrary, would not want to date someone who didn’t have religious faith. We all come from different backgrounds :)

Am

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1. Drug use2. Alcohol use3. Abusive behavior 4. Not self sufficient5. Jealousy6. Abandoning the relationship7. Intelligence8. He HAS to have a sense of humor9. Bad grammar. 10. Use of emojis while texting.

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Amy • Oct 6, 2017
My boyfriend actually does smoke weed, alcohol I don't mind as long as it's not excessive. And emojis are annoying and childish. I want a man. Not a teenage boy

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Rachel R • Oct 5, 2017
alcohol

Ra

Rachel R • Oct 5, 2017
emojis ? alchol ? damn you must be fuuuun . cant even smoke a j , i suppose

Di

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1. Emotionally unavailable.2. Controlling3. Misogynistic 4. Sloppy/unhygienic 5. Unambitious 6. Unfocused

la

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if they leave the toilet seat up with little drips around the seat :)

Er

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A guy that doesn't have any goals in life. You need a man that to has career goals, family plans, etc, and will know how to achieve them somehow. A guy that doesn't know how to take care of you. He needs to know how to take care of you physically, emotionally, sexually, one who cares about your safety and well-being. A guy who doesn't like dogs.I am very thankful I have my husband because of these three things especially, I know that our marriage and our future will be successful.

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🅱️ • Oct 5, 2017
Agree well said!

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Someone who isn't attentive. Someone who won't reply to all of a message you send them. Someone who has poor hygiene. Someone who is pessimistic. Someone who has absolutely no self-motivation/goals. (I just pretty much described my ex lol, it's still a lil fresh. Sans a few.)