Okay so I need some opinions and honesty I've been with this guy for just over a month but we've known each other for 6 years and always had a thing for each other just never really made it official and well lately I've been joking with him saying I'll guy buy myself toys to entertain myself with while his at work and lately his been asking me to buy vibrators and dildos so he can use them on me and I really don't know what to do like I want to but I don't want to at the same time if that makes any sense at all? He also wants to try anal? Like every time he goes down on me he tries to go the back way as well anyone have any advice for that? His tried to finger my but but it hurts 🙄 help please