Hi... So I need a bit of advise and I don't wanna feel like a crazy girl friend or anything but I want to know what everyone thinks.

Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and absolutely love each other. We got together in high school and we are now 22.

Lately I have been having SO much trouble with his family and it's driving me crazy.

We both live with our parents still so it make it a bit hard.

(1) His family don't say thank you... EVER and I just find it so rude. I do so much for my partner and his siblings and not once to I ever receive a thank you from his parents.

(2) I have been having trouble with his extended family. His cousins made me go to his house and they wanted to start trouble and asked me what another member of the family has been saying about them and they accused me of doing a heap of things that I definitely did not do or even know about.

My partner supports me and has got my back.. I have begged his mother to talk to her family about how rude they where to me and she pretty much swept it under the carpet.

4 months on they (my partners cousins) are still being rude to me eg; not speaking to me when I enter the room. So I made my partner deal with it. His cousins forced me to have a sit down meeting with them and I made sure my mother and my partners mother was in the room. During the meeting I explained how upset I was and all the cousins wanted to do was fight back at me. One of his cousins called me a "fucking cow" and when I told her I wanted this kept confidential she laughed at me and said I need to go back to primary school.

I ended up having to leave because my mother stood up for me but my partners mother didn't say anything and it really hurt me that she didn't control her own family.

As I was leaving his cousins yelled out "you don't even love him" which is just horrible

I'm so so so upset over this all and I don't know if I am just being a sook. I absolutely hate conflict ☹️

Do you think I'm over reacting or do I have every right to be upset considering they arnt even my family and I can't deal with it!