Virgin = Orgasm, right?

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My boyfriend and I had sex and he was a virgin. Well he didn't cum and we were going for longer then an hour. He got exhausted and I did too. I felt insecure thinking I might of not done a good job on making him pleased be he insured me it was great and that he was insecure now too cause he isn't sure himself why he didn't. Is it because of me? Do I have bad sex game?

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reassure him that its okay. it's his first time and he was probably nervous. just reassure him it's okay and just try again when he is comfortable to.

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My fiance can go long sessions without orgasming.  He is more interested in my pleasure.  Don't over think it of you both are enjoying yourself

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It's okay girl! my now husband and I lost our virginity together and it was a rough couple times. these feelings are completely normal on both sides. he probably wants you to feel pleased like my husband does. he's just able to control it usually and waits for me first. this world has messed up everyone's thinking on sex and how it's supposed to be. men aren't all horn dogs who can just cum or need sex all the time. I actually have a higher sex drive. And for the first few months I thought something was wrong with me because I thought men just always wanted it. well my husband isn't like that and we communicated about it. don't worry :) and don't put pressure on yourselves as that will only strain a sex relationship. enjoy the moment

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The same thing happened to me the first few times that I had sex with my first boyfriend in high school. We were both virgins and nervous. After he came for the first time, he came easily after that. I think it's just nerves and stress

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It’s pretty common to not finish your first time most people get too nervous and worked up

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If it was his first time he was probably so nervous and for anybody overthinking can prevent us from enjoying sex. If you are comfortable keep having sex with him and help him find what feels good for him and you and you. Just keep the communication open.

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No it’s not you at all my boyfriend lost his virginity to me and we went for 50 min and he didn’t cum we just got tired to but he was more in his head about it he just wanted to try to pleasure me before he did himself and he tried to make me more happy he didn’t even cum until like the 10th time because he just wanted me to orgasm before he did but I told him it’s fine that I wanted him to and now he does so just talk to him about it

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The first few times my hubby (who was a virgin at the time) and I had sex, he didn't go either. He was too stressed. Just relax and enjoy yourselves.

Virgin = Orgasm, right?

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