Ladies.... every single male I've met is obsessed with anal. I have always said no. However now I'm getting married and been with my partner for a long time now. And he wants to try it he never pushes it on me or anything but he really wants to. Now one time we didn't purposely try and it went it and omg I felt like dying. Any ideas of how to make this less painful? Does it get better? Do you actually ever really enjoy it? Tried lube it's hopeless... any tips for a first timer?? 🤷‍♀️