I really do need advice please:

I am so fed up with my boyfriends mother. She is so nasty (she doesn’t shower like ever) she’ll go months close to years without showering at all no joke,she is a hoarder the house is a mess (she buys multiple of everything) she is against cleaning (example vacuuming also dusting) when I even try to do it she “gets mad” that it’s her house I can’t smh we live here meaning my boyfriend and I with our child now I can’t deal with this anymore and yet she criticized how I raise my OWN child and what I do as a mother!! I can’t take it anymore! Yesterday I went off on her for bashing what I am doing with my child so to make a long story short she ruined our day as a family minus her it was suppose to me my boyfriend and I along with our child we have together cause this always happens when we bring her she’s a n o y i n g af 🙄 I seriously cussed her out I know not good but she has been doing this for so long I couldn’t just let her deal with bashing me as a mother no longer 😠 I have my breaking points but this time she really broke my point 😡 she alwaysssssss wants to be in charge too like with my baby even when I say stop or no she does it anyways 😐 I really wish my boyfriend would set her straight I really wish but he just won’t smfh 😑 I told my mother all this and for real she wants me to live back with her 😦 idk what to do cause I live the offer but I can’t leave my boyfriend I love him way too much and not to mention family separation for our child 😭 it’ll break my head if I have to do that 💔 we can’t even afford to move on our own yet 🏡 we don’t have that kinda money right now 💰 it’s either me go back and live with my mom bringing my child but leaving my boyfriend or continue to suffer here even more then I already have 🏚 I don’t even have a job so money is from my TFA which is gone quickly 💸 please don’t judge me I need serious advice from people willing to do so I don’t have time for negativity I already have too much plus I’m disabled on top of anxiety/depression/bipolar 🙍 #AdviceNeeded #MomInNeed