So I’ve been with my boyfriend for three and a half years now and when we have sex now it hurts when we first start. Sometimes it feels like the bottom of my vagina is tearing and afterwards my vagina feels swollen and it hurts for a couple of days. Which sucks because sometimes we want to have sex again the next day and I can’t because it hurts. When we first got together it didn’t seem like it hurt this much. His penis is quite larger than my vagina (I’m a really petite person)

. But this started about two years ago. It makes me not want to have sex with him because I know it’s going to hurt and it’s not as pleasurable any more. I feel bad because I feel like I’m not in the mood anymore because the thought of the pain is a turn off for me. So sometimes we will go weeks with out having sex and i hate it. Anyone experience anything like this or does anyone have any advice?