I have an 8 week old. My husband can be a delight some days & a complete jerk the next. He acts SO tired and if I ask him to do one small thing he throws a fit, like he’ll throw a pillow annoyingly, or mumble shut up because the baby is fussy. That in particular makes my blood boil. The baby is obviously crying for a reason. Don’t tell him to shut up. Meanwhile I’m sleep deprived on the daily but still want to stay up to when I can to try and spend time together. He makes no effort. He goes to bed early because of work even on his days off. He gets so rude when he’s tired. I’m tired all the time but still keep a good attitiude. Its gotten to the point I resent him. I often think about leaving in the middle of the night and just leaving a note behind but I dont know how I would make it. I’m a stay at home mom and depend on him. Is this crazy? Does this hard phase pass as the baby gets older? Also added that I’ve talked to him numerous times about what I need, not feeling happy, etc.