Sex, Pegging, Anal, and Toys

ok so who else has a guy who likes his ass to be played with? is it weird for y'all? we sometimes get really into it and he wants me to fuck him with a strap on and I get into it for a second and it's hot then after I get weirded out for a bit and idk why I know it's like the norm kinda for like anal it's in the movies, music, and media but it's still taboo when I try to talk about it with my best friends and they start judging and making me feel bad cause they ask well do you think he could be gay?