Needing to Vent 🙄 (excuse the grammar and errors I may make)
So I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I work full time. My fiancé works more than me at least 12 hour shifts though. So I do the basics cook, clean, wash clothes, etc. the only thing I ask him to do is take out the trash and clean the toilet LITERALLY all I ask of him. He doesn't have to wash dishes, wash clothes, clean, cook, anything I literally do it all! So last night we had this huge argument and I bring up that I do so much around here and he doesn't do the things I ask which pisses me off! He's good on taking out the trash (most of the time) but he never cleans the toilet, I have to keep telling him to do it. So he makes a comment saying nobody ask me to do the stuff I do and I get furious! (Obviously still is!) Like no nobody tells me to do shit but as the woman of the house I feel that's the least I can do since you work the last thing you want to come home to is a dirty house and no food! Like idk if he was mad or really meant it but I feel as if people true colors come out when they're mad. Even now he don't understand where I'm coming from. Like I do everything and only ask one thing and I have to pull his arm to do that. I only ask he clean it twice a week not even picky on what days he choose! But how can I get him to see it from my point?! Or is he just being inconsiderate?? I understand this is one of the many arguments we may have but just this is driving me crazy especially since it's the only thing I ask
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