My husband and I decided we were ready to start trying to have a baby. He's been on testosterone for as long as I've known him. He said he has low testosterone of his own. So in order for us to start trying to conceive, his urologist took him off the testosterone and put him on clomid. He was worried from the start about the side effects and the dr said if he had any they would probably only last a couple weeks. OMG! I am trying to be supportive but everyday he has been complaining alot about being tired, having no energy, no sex drive, not sleeping well, having no motivation, and so on. Basically it's like every side effect that he read that he could get, he's been complaining about having. I've been trying to say things like, "I'm sorry...remember it's for a good cause" and I've been trying to persuade him to eat energy type foods and to try juicing and that I would make it all that for him if he'd do it. But then again today, I get another text about how bad this sucks and yada yada....so I replied "I'm sorry, it won't be forever. It's only been 2 wks. Maybe the dr can help." He then lashed out at me saying he wished I'd stop saying that and took it as I'm saying to him to stop complaining and something about what if i lost the one hormone that controls everything within my body and so on. Wow! I don't even know what to say anymore. Part of me wants to just scream at him and ask him how he thinks a woman feels when her hormones are out of whack every month and how a woman feels for the 9 months of being pregnant and the months after having the baby. Now I know why women are designed to withstand so much more than men. I'm trying so hard to listen to him and help him but he really set me off today. I really hope he doesn't give up already or I don't strangle him (lol).