bowel movement?!

Monica

its been 4 days since my c section and I haven't had a bowel movement yet. I'm gassy and although I can't pass gas as much as I want to it still happens. I feel like I need to go but then once I'm in the bathroom I can't it doesn't happen...how long did it take you guys to be able to go? its making me nervous. I do take stool softeners.