He's A Bad (French) Kisser

I love my boyfriend but he's a terrible kisser. I swear, sometimes I think he is purposely putting extra spit in my mouth.

This didn't used to really bother me all that much, I would just avoid french kissing. Even before sex. It wasn't a big deal to me when I was younger but now I'm in my 30's and after many years, I want more intimacy and I want to be kissed. I want one of those long romantic passionate kisses that gets you both horny and makes your heart flutter. I'm sure most of you know what I mean.

Last night we had sex and it was terrible. This may be too much info but it's like we just took each others pants off and dove straight for the privates. I gave him head but other than that, no foreplay. I was horny all day and really wanted to have sex but when it happened it was just awful and that has been happening a lot more frequently lately. I think if he would kiss my neck and my lips it would make all the difference but when he kisses me, all the extra spit makes me feel sick. I don't know what to do. This is seriously hurting our love life. He's kinda sensitive and doesn't like to talk about sex and things like that. Can I help him be a better kisser or is my love life doomed? Can you say or do anything to make someone a better kisser?