Leaving the house?!

My Mom is an Asian Mom. And in general, Asian moms are usually over-protective to their children and conservative . My Mom, is not an exception. She doesn't want to let me or my brother to leave the house, or she will be mad, angry and hatred if we ever talked about that. Things get more complicated when I start dating someone and get more stresses from school and work. I'm really tired and frustrated. I don't know if I should make a decision. There are days that I can't control my feelings and attitudes and accidentally saying disrespectful words and hurt her feeling. I really don't mean it. I wish she could understand me more. Anyone had been going through the same problem ?