Is it normal for husbands to barley spend time talking with their wives? I feel like I'm always begging mine to talk to me and he is always so detached 😒😒😒😒 I'm so over it like in my heart but it aggravates me is this normal?? btw it's been this way from day one after marriage. Actually on our engagement day he spent the night on Facebook posting and commenting that he was engaged and I felt really ignored but I loved him at that point and now I'm like kicking myself that I didn't realize then like he should have spent that night with me. And it's like that with him. He's so detached it's so annoying. I don't think he's cheating but I guess who knows? I know at times I feel like finding someone else that will WANT to spend time with me and not just do it after begging and being told I'm done🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄.