should have tried harder...

ive been trying now for 4 months, im now just about to start the tww and im annoyed with myself for not trying hard enough...this isnt entirely my fault, my partner is really starting to feel the pressure now, he says i put too much pressure on it and this stops him from being able to cum. i havant recorded on here when that was as he didnt cum i didnt bother...anyone else had the same issue with their other halves? whats my chances this month?