Boyfriend has abnormal sperm

Found out boyfriend, has low sperm count and misshaped sperm after a year of thinking the problem was me and all my test come back normal. He finally get tested and welp doctor sad he will have trouble because of the way his sperm is shaped, now he mad at me and saying it my fault and that he don’t want to do IVF. So told him I’m not giving up on having a baby because you don’t like your test results. Damn men.