So what do I do?

Question

I am not pregnant yet, but when I do get pregnant what do I do? I have no mother or friends that are mothers to ask it's not that I am too young to have kids I just don't know what to do when I first find out like I need steps ladies I want to be prepared for it all. Thank you I feel like a total idiot like I should just know what to do and how to do it. 
my SO mother has  passed away already😞 and I don't really have any family in my
Life. My mom is very self conceited and only cares about her self and her new girl friends and automatically her kids don't exist. So I don't have anyone and yes I take care of children all the time. But not really friends with the mothers. Anytime I am around kids I get told I will make a great mom

Answer

When it comes to that point. The day after you find out, make a doctor's appointment with your doctor or go to a health clinic, they'll confirm that you're pregnant. Usually with those places you can ask for someone to talk to or depending on your age they will offer. Just go from there, take it day by day.

Answer

Before you get pregnant, I would do a prenatal appointment with a doctor. They will be able to answer questions and tell you about how the first part of pregnancy works, things that will happen, and what you need to do. And after you are pregnant there are classes of all sorts to help new moms. Also If you are ready to ttc start reading pregnancy books, baby's first year books, and marriage with a baby books.

Answer

Call your insurance company before you even get pregnant preferably as soon as possible to make sure your prenatal care is going to be covered and also what exactly they would cover because if it’s needed to be fixed or trying to switch once you are is hell. I’m the perfect example because I’ve had the same insurance since I got married 10 years ago and for some reason when they were informed that I was pregnant some new bitch dropped my policy (yes I called her a bitch because I still think that it was on purpose since we had problems while she was training but jokes on her because she lost her job) and I’m now well into my second trimester and still haven’t been to the doctor since it just kicked back in

Answer

I’m 18 but when I found out I didn’t tell my mom , I went to the doctors to take a pregnancy test and confirm and made my first appointment and started to take prenatals

Answer

What about your SO’s mom? Or not even a mother figure. What about a father figure in your life? And have you ever babysat or nannied? Like do you have experience taking care of infants? I feel like natural instincts may kick in, but idk, just assuming.

Answer

The articles on this app should be pretty helpful! Also just start reading other people’s posts, it will give you a lot of information.

So what do I do?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey