He always talks about starting a family. I am on the birth control patch. Last week there was and issue with my pharmacy and insurance so I was l 4 days late/ 4 days with a patch on or any birth control. Tuesday I was finally able to get my birth control and apply it. So Friday him and I had sex and we used a condom. However, the condom irratated my skin and was hurting so he just took it off and pulled out. Last night we had sex no condom because we think I’m allergic to it. I tell him to pull out and he doesn’t. His excuse was that he did it in the outer of my vagina but that’s bullshit. He laughs and tells me it just felt too good. Today I told him to go half on me with plan b and he tells me that I don’t need it. I told him that I’ll just buy it and he keeps trying to talk me out of it saying it’s a waste of money. He is four years older than me, I wouldn’t mind having a kid right now. However, I would like to avoid it if I can. What do you ladies think ?