Okay. So I’m a 19 year old virgin. I’ve been sexually assaulted quite a few times. I’m petrified of pregnancy. Also my sex drive is like non-existent most times then other times it’s there but not too much and the rare chance it’s pretty high.

I’m dating this guy. He’s awesome and definitely my soulmate. The thing is he’s hyper sexual. He knows how my sex drive is. He even knows about my past. He completely understand and is willing to work with me and make me feel safe.

I love receiving and giving oral but I just lose my sex drive as soon as it looks like it could go into penetration.

So my question is what birth control method can I use that WON’T decrease my sex drive?

(I feel like this made no sense or I over explained and gave unnecessary information. Oh well. 🤷🏽‍♀️)