I may be a nympho!

When my husband and I met we would do it like allllll the time! Every chance we got. I told him that my doctor says I have a high testosterone level which may be the reason I'm always ready to go at it. Well now 5 years in and I don't get it like I used to. I'm lucky if I get it once a week. My husband and I work shift work and we work the same shift. Sometimes we ride together sometimes we don't it all depends. But he shows no signs of cheating. He leaves his phone around sometimes I have to bring it to him, he's a homebody and likes to do things around the house. Hobbies include hunting and fishing. He's really a great husband but I have needs. When we do it it's off the charts and I ask him every time why do you make me wait so long? He and I both have put on some weight and he thinks that's part of the problem. I suppose we should get back in the gym. Sometimes I feel like I'm the man and he's the woman always pushing me away. He always tells me how beautiful I am so I get so confused. What to do? The only way I can make it baby is if we do it regularly. And I don't use toys or anything because I want the affection not the the feeling.