We're leaving this Saturday for a weekend trip with my sister in law and her BF; it's our 1 year old's first plane ride BUT she came down with a cold this morning and is running a low fever right now.

Since she's a lap infant, she didn't need a ticket but my husband and I already have ours.

We're waiting to see how she is and if nothing changes by tomorrow night, she won't be going. We live with my parents and they take care of her while we work so she's super close to them; my mom told me that regardless my husband and I should still go BUT I would feel guilty and terrible going without her 😭😭

Our hotel hasn't been paid for it BUT I only have until 11:59 pm tonight to cancel it or we will be charged a rate of a 1 day stay.

We would be gone Saturday and Sunday and coming back Monday afternoon. I've never been away from her for this long (I've never even been a night away from her).

What would you guys do? I'm really torn but also hoping her fever goes away by tomorrow!