I'm really into kinky sex and want to get into harder stuff. My partner is willing to get into BDSM with me and so kinky stuff to me but he doesn't get pleasure out of it. He's not turned on by anything. It makes me feel bad about myself and like I can't do anything. He always just says he's attracted to me or turned on by just me; but it's frustrating to be with him when he doesn't have things I can do to turn him on. I want to try to get more into doing BDSM because I'm into it and he's willing to do it for me, but it almost doesn't feel worth it if he's not into. It almost turns me off that he's not turns on by it and that he just does it for me. It would make me feel better if it was mutually enjoyed. Anyone else ever go through this?