Check this crazy mess out!!
So my husband works two hours from home and some days he may not feel like driving back, so he'd stay at his mom's for a few hours before his next shift. When he works overtime, he has the option of staying at his mom's as usual or sleeping in the car at the depot until his regular shift starts ( about 6hrs). Anyway, he worked overtime this morning and he's awake and called me with a plan he and a couple of his work buddies, including his father, have in mind. *For some reason I can't start new paragraph, smh* Anyway, the plan is that he and these guys get another apartment out in the city, where they can crash after overtime or whenever they feel like relaxing and not driving home. Now, I get it, it's tough sleeping in the car and sometimes he'd rather not go to his mom's house but I think this idea is ludicrous. I trust my husband and he hasn't given me any, real, solid reasons to doubt him. However, I don't think trust has anything to with giving a married man the okay to get an apartment with a lot of his single, party friends, as a crash pad. I'm not here for it. I didn't go crazy and start running off at the mouth tho, I let him speak and waited until he asked my opinion. I simply asked him, "how would you feel if I had a home away from home, where I can sleep or just chill, as you said, with my unmarried girlfriends"? His response was, "You're missing the point" and that was it. Now tell me ladies, what am I missing? Would you be down with it?
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