Does losing my virginity to a stranger make me a slut?

Question

I'm gonna be 21 next week and I didn't want to be a virgin anymore. I was safe and it was consensual. I'll probably never see him again though. I knew the first was gonna be awkward and not so great no letter who it was with. But now some of my friends are telling I messed up and should've waited.

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You're an adult, you can make your own decisions & if you choose to lose your virginity that way then that's completely up to you. I feel like no one should judge you. It's your virginity to begin with. You was clearly of age, safe & everything was consensual. I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. It's personally not the choice I made for myself, but just because I didn't do it that way doesn't make it wrong.

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It’s your choice. If you are comfortable and happy. Then it’s not a problem.

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It only matters how you feel. I lost mine to a friend. We weren't dating and I was just tired of being a virgin too. I don't regret anything and that's all that matters. Losing your virginity to one guy doesn't make you a "slut". I wonder how squeaky clean your friends are 🙄🙄🙄

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The first time having sex with someone you really care about will still be special, I don't think you messed up. I just wanted to get it over with so I did it with my ex and I wish I had done it with a stranger. Honestly, I think most people aren't completely happy with how they lost it so I wouldn't stress it. To me it's not as important as everyone makes it seem.

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It doesn't make you a slut, and it all depends on what sex represent to you. For me having sex with stranger is not ok because i personally think sex must be more than just pleasure and i wouldn't feel comfortable with someone i didn't know. Now this is up to you and you are free of doing what you think suits you best.
Now be conscious that people can and will judge you based on your sex life, you want it or not.

Does losing my virginity to a stranger make me a slut?

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