i told my bf in the past that i dont mind him sleeping over at peoples houses, however i told him that i dont like it if he sleeps over at a girls house. Even though I told him this, he had slept over at a girls house once before and didnt tell me about until i later found out. He then just said oh i thought i told you. Well today he was invited to sleep over at a girls house and i asked if he would and his answer was probably not. Later that night he confirmed that he would because the girl is lesbian and his friends are sleeping over too. Would you be ok with your SO sleeping over? i personally was still uncomfortable with it, so he said he would sleep in his car😕