I have an ugly vagina. Help?

Years of shaving have made my vagina ugly. I constantly get ingrown hairs (no matter how I shave), and they have left bumps, scars, and dark marks on my vagina. I am of darker complexion and it’s very noticeable.

I’m worried because I recently entered a new relationship. We are moving towards getting more intimate, but I’m scared to have him go down on me because my vagina is ugly. I feel more comfortable when I have a little bit of hair down there to hide it, but he prefers shaved and I don’t wanna turn him off when the time comes, as he’s never even see me without my underwear on yet.

Is there any way I can get rid of the scars and bumps? Or atleast lighten the dark spots fairly quickly?