Sex in early pregnancy

I'm only 5 weeks and we have been trying for SO long and we are obviously over the moon but my man has said no sex or even fingering until we get our scan and 7.5 weeks or even 12 weeks. I obviously know rough sex etc isn't great but surely nice and gentle is ok, I'm totally happy about being pregnant but my sex drive is sky high and always has been and he won't even come near me let alone have any kind of intimacy in case it 'hurts the baby'😫

Any suggestions?