I know men grieve differently then we do, but my husband finally said it yesterday. He blames me for our miscarriages. We know the first was due to mono/mono twins. The second was a chemical pregnancy. We just miscarried on the 22nd at 4w5d, and he believes it is my fault. Like I didn't have enough guilt before he made his feelings known. It is my fault, my body's fault at least. Heartbroken doesn't even begin describe me right now. When is it ok to crawl into a hole?