So me and my husband just had sex for the first time after having my daughter a month ago, before I gave birth he could last 20- hour but he only lasted 5 minuets if that, just as the little bit of pain left and it started feeling good again he was done I’m guessing a month without didn’t make it easy for him to last. After it was over he went to clean up and I found myself starting to cry, he didn’t notice I was ready to cry but had notice I was off and asked me what was wrong, I lied said nothing then went and had a mini break down in the bathroom, when I got back in bed he was passed out and I couldn’t stop the crying again, I’m not even sure myself what was wrong if it’s cause I wasn’t satisfied or if was cause I felt so distant from him, kind of like I was just a hole for him to stick it in. I know postpartum hormones and baby blues are worse after birth.

has anything like this happen to any of you momma’s out there or is it just me, and does anyone have advice on how to tell my husband how I felt without making him feel like less of a man?