Finally out!

Maria

Soooo... I came out the other day and wasn't expecting to feel so good about it. Personally, coming out wasn't really important to me (I'm not saying it isn't important to other people). I didn't really feel the need to "define" my sexuality, but something came up (just me being really petty about something dumb 🙄) and I just told all my friends. Some of them were surprisingly shocked???? I mean I don't know why, I wasn't hiding it or anything. I feel like I was REALLY obvious about it. I know for a fact I was literally hitting on other girls right in front of them... I guess they didn't realize it was homo intended??? Anyways, all the people who are important to me didn't have a problem with it and a huge weight I didn't even know I had was lifted off my chest. If you are able to safely come out I encourage you to do so. It was the best decision, impulsive or not, I have ever made. I feel like a lot of us are still trying to find ourselves and I think being honest with not only yourself but the people around you is the best way to do that. Having support from others is something I didn't realize I needed. Oh, and if anyone doesn't support you, throw them away like the trash they are because you don't need to waste your time on them.