was told to "get my shit together"

my boyfriend always texts me good morning every morning and the past 2 days he hasn't even texted me at all! I texted him first and said "hey love" and all I got was a hey back and I asked him what he was doing just trying to make convo then I got busy at work and couldn't text him back and he double texted me saying hello because he asked what I was doing and I didn't text back fast enough. later on that day I saw some funny video of some kid on Instagram saying how much he loves his girlfriend and how special she is to her so I sent it to my boyfriend saying"can you start doing things like that for me?" just messing around and he told me "when you get your shit together I will" I'm only 20 I waitress 5 days a week and make good tips enough to pay the bills I have and have money left over for myself. me and my boyfriend live together and I always clean the house and make sure he has dinner every night and make sure the house is clean when he gets off work and has clean clothes. I'm not in school right now until spring but I don't understand how I don't have my shit together according to him, I literally do everything for him and myself