Why do people get mad if you choose to abort, take plan b, not let guys come in you, eat sparingly or take the bc pill? Why do people expect you to have a baby if you've suffered from anorexia all your life and you damn well know that if you're not healthy yourself, the fucking baby will come out fucked up too? If you get pregnant and you're anorexic the baby has a high chance of having a neural tube defect or some other cogential deformity, you kind of have to prepare years before you concieve and I hate how people get on me for not wanting to ruin my body and risk having an unplanned kid. That's pretty much neglect before the damn thing is even born.