Soo.. while me and my boyfriend were having sex, he really was doing everything possible to get me to orgasm. I never have. pretty sure the issue is me holding back. when I feel like I get close, I push him away. not that I don't want it to happen.. I don't even know how to explain it. I'm not on any birth control, I thought going off it would help me. I still haven't gotten my period back to a regular cycle either. don't know if that's something to do with it or if it really is me. πŸ€” anyone have any similar situations... advice?. 😢😌