This happens frequently.. more like every weekend. My partner of 7 years goes out and ignores my calls and texts and smokes and drinks and doesn't come home.

He left at 5.30pm last night and it's now 6.30am the next morning and I am up with our 2 and a half year old son. And he's still not home.

I have told him I'm sick of it and he can't do that and he needs to communicate but he still does it and doesn't see a problem with it.

I have recently found an app on his phone called hot or not which is like an app where you rate girls and can chat with them, he said he only downloaded it cause we were arguing and he never made a profile. But he did cause he had emails saying that " bla bla likes your profile and left you a message"

He also downloaded tinder a couple months ago cause he said we were arguing and thought we were gonna break up so he wanted to get over me as quickly as possible.

I said to him, how would you like it if I left you at home with the puppy and our son EVERY weekend and I went out and never came home and never helped you out and I went clubbing and stuff. All he said was, I wouldn't like it.

Like wtf ? That's it ?

I'm just drained and frustrated.

He stayed at a girls house earlier this year cause he said he was too drunk to come home and I locked him out which I didn't cause his keys were under the mat. 😐 he said she was an old mate from middle school.. and I saw a text on his phone the next morning from a guy saying " did you fuck ****** ? "

I'm just so over all this bullshit and drama ! And he tries to blame me and say that he wouldn't go out if I made him happy.

He's happy all week then when the weekend rolls around he's unhappy and needs to go out and get wasted.

I don't know what I could possibly say to him to get him to realise what he's doing to me and our family..

I'm just done at this point,

Advice would be appreciated or anyone been through anything similar ? 😢😩

The first edit is in the comments and this is edit #2

He just woke up and it's 1 in the afternoon and he showed me a piece of paper and it was from the police and he got arrested last night and that's why he's saying he didn't get home till 7am..

It's just so childish and he thinks everything is fine cause he had an excuse for being out so late and he said " I had to sleep on fucking concrete all night"

I said that's your fault and he said no it's not I didn't even do anything wrong