Okay girls! So my SO has a 4 year old with his ex.

They have been split since he was a baby.

Anyway, my SO has done everything she has ever asked him to do, including driving over an hour to drop his son off because she was “busy”

So last week my SO started a new job which is Monday to Friday. He picked his son up after work on Friday and told his ex that he could no longer have his son on a Sunday night as he starts work at 6.30 am on a Monday now.

I have the day off on Mondays but I am not ready to watch his son on my own as the mother has accused me of doing things with him without her permission (ie- cutting his hair) and I feel as though I don’t want to be dragged into the situation again. She also said a few months back that I wasn’t to have any part of helping with Ethan so I basically said no I will not help as I’m not doing it when it’s convenient for her.

She is flat out saying that my partner needs to tell his new work place that he can’t work on Mondays because of it.

She doesn’t work, so there is no excuse for her not to meet us.

I have also laid a rule that she is not to come to our house to collect him as I don’t want her on my property.

This is now causing arguments between me and my partner because I won’t take his son to his ex on Monday so he doesn’t have to hear about it.

I need some serious advice girls on how to approach the situation as my partner needs to tell her that wether she likes it or not she needs to be collecting her son on a Sunday night. Help! 😩😩😩😩