I feel unhappy with my relationship right now. We have a baby so I know we're busy doing that and it just doesn't give a lot of time for us. But I just feel like blah about my relationship right now. I'm incredibly bored. These are little things but I'll mention them anyways. I really like tattoos and some piercings and so I decided to get mmh septum pierce and my partner doesn't like it, he doesnt like tattoos or piercings and that something I'm really into and it just feels like I look ugly to him. I also want to get into BDSM but my partner doesn't get turned on by that kind of stuff or really anything. He said he would do BDSM stuff for me but it kind of takes the turn on and the sexiness out of it for me knowing that he's not turned on by it. He also just doesn't seem turned on by anything he always says he's turned on by me but there is nothing particular that turns him on so it just feels dry and boring. This wasn't a problem really in the beginning of our relationship but not now I'm just kind of bored and want more. I want someone who finds like piercings and tattoos sexy, I want someone who's into the kind of sex I like and who gets off on things. I don't know what to do