No scan until 20 weeks?

KimberlyKlostermayer

So I'm 8 weeks along by my LMP but my doctor has only set up one appointment when I am 13 weeks and that is just a checkup and to hear the heartbeat. I won't have an ultrasound until January. This seems like a long time especially since this is a rainbow baby? Am I crazy but it feels like everyone else has already had an early scan and has images of their little ones and I am just sitting here in the dark?