baby girls name has been decided

today was one of the hardest days of my life because today my SO's family and I found out that his mom passed away in her sleep either late last night or early this morning. I've had grandparents from my mom's side pass away but i wasn't close to them. I was however close to my SO's mom even though I only knew her for less than 2 years she definitely was a huge light in my life. even though my almost 2 year old will never grow up to know her I'm glad she got to be apart of her life even if it was for a short time. I am very sad that baby #2 will never get the opportunity to meet her because she was an amazing woman. but we have finally decided on a name for her. her name will be Paisley Jean (Jean was my SO's mom's middle name). before she passed at my gender reveal I was telling her different names I liked and I told her that I really liked the sound of Paisley Jean and she melted and fell inlove with the name. so now it's set that she will carry a piece of her name forever. and she could also be born on her birthday as well which would be bittersweet. Please just hold your loved ones a little longer and tighter. and please never take for granted every minute you have with them❤